Erik, it's good to hear that. These big name brands evolve over the years from their "signature sound", therefore an audition is absolutely necessary before you buy.
Some thoughts on "Stereophile's" classification system; they rest their foundation on that, while people might criticize, if they found something truly substantial wrong with the ratings, that would be a black eye for the magazine.
Sometime a component will rate "B" in one issue, and "C" in the next issue, and then return to "B". This means that component is "borderline B", and from my experience, is always a good buy; consequentially, I will quite often own that component. Good buys are rare in the high end.
The widest range of products exist in Class "A"; that is also where you can find the widest range of prices. "Koetsu" is the only really high priced high end cartridge I have ever auditioned, and it was magnificent. I don't recall which one, but I'm glad I remembered that because there are other cartridges in Class "A" that get recommended more, and I was considering one of them without ever having heard it.
That's an option we are faced with far too often; I'm going to take my own medicine and go with what I know; "Koetsu" if I'm ever in that position.
I will do my best to offer advice on components I know about that have been rated by "Stereophile". This is not a recommendation for the magazine, just a point of reference that we both can relate to.
No one understands better than me, about audiophiles with limited "pocketbooks", and I have no problem admitting it. Now to go along with that problem; "How are you going to audition the thing", is another problem. One option I can think of, is to buy a lesser priced model used, and sell it back for what you paid for it. You can usually rely on the current "signature sound"; that is the most important element in cartridges.
Enjoy the music.