The projected dogma inherent in the complex ape based vehicle of the human, makes such things difficult. The dogma -as unspoken/unrealized/unconscious ’clan stability’ projections - can make change for individual mindsets difficult and unloved.
The good part is that we are individuals. If we were not individuals and we were all exactly the same, the world would be a very dead thing. A commodity, in some systems of valuation. Thankfully, controlling the human race is like trying to herd cats. What some see as one of our greater flaws when it runs rampant, is the part that saves us.
Each of us gets to deal with some form of a grind, and in the end, it is important that it be there.