In all honesty...I haven't read every single response to your inquiry. However, like yourself...I've been around the block a few times and my ears have roughly 40-years of training (give or take). I grew up with a pair of Bozak 410 concert grands that were my dad's. Fortunately for me...he decided to live on a boat...long story short...they've been in my possession for 12-years or so. They were powered with an old McIntosh 2200 amp so when I inherited them I switched out the 2200 for a McIntosh MC300. Each cabinet have 14-drivers and although the cabinets are 4' x 3' x 18" (hxwxd) and weigh in at 250 lbs (solid walnut) they magically disappear when in use. In addition to the Bozak's, I've owned (own) JM Labs (big and small), Kef's, B&W's, Tanoy's, Dunlavy's, old Klipsch (when they were still made by hand), PSB's, and Merlin speakers (old and new) to name but a few. If you're interested I would be happy to share with you the three (3) separate stereo (AV) systems I have (one on each of three floors...my wife knew what she was getting herself into when we married). This said...I have auditioned and listened to in great detail hundreds of other speakers to include commercial, stereo enthusiasts who created their own and everything in between. Although I like (and prefer) the presence of larger cabinet speakers (usually decreases the need for a separate sub-woofer)...I've always been impressed with what Bobby Z., up at Merlin can shove into a box. I would encourage you to find a pair of their current speakers (floor standing or bookshelf) and give them about 20-60 minutes of your time (depending on how many LP's/discs, etc you decide to bring. In the long run...it's your ear and wallet (and loved ones) who make the final decisions. If possible, I would also audition a pair of Meyer Sound HD-1 studio monitors. I'm lucky enough to have a pair to use as my computer speakers (sort of home studio studio) but like the Merlin's...they are magical to my ears! One more thing. Many "audiophiles" I've spoken with (including myself) offer this suggestion: When you play a piece of music you have listened to over and over and over again through a pair of speakers you have never heard before and you find yourself beginning to tear-up and/or cry...those are the speakers you should purchase." Besides, life is too short to listen to muddy, watered down sound that cost you an arm and a leg!
Best of luck!
Shawn
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