I nearly regret the fact that I am bachelor (aka widower). Such is
the force of romantic stories (grin). But I then realized that all
my expensive stuff I got as ''present'' from myself. That is to say
since I got command of my own money .
Not to spoil your exicitement here is some positive contribution
for you.
With the FR-64 S VTF adjuster chose 1g and the added 1g
with the counterweight. I got this advice from Dertonarm himself.