"I've gone everywhere from just doing a better integrated and maybe saving some money (Primaluna HP, Octave, VAC sigma) to separates to mono's (VAC, C-J, Cary, Manley, Rogue, and a few others). Don't mind used in the least."
phaun16-
Off topic, but if you're serious about playing records,I would step up the phono stage with a serious tube unit. Your present amp, and all the other setups you had, are not presenting your favorite albums in their best light.
The Graham is nice, but obviously will not have the tube vibe, which you have with your Melody.
For the kind of scratch you're prepared to spend, a used $4-6K killer phono stage and a new Lyra, Koetsu...whatever would satisfy
the itch, until you're ready for speakers.