Full detailed sound at 30 - 40 - 50 dB


I love the nuance you can hear when listening to music at loud volumes, but unless no one is home, it’s not considerate or feasible to listen at such high volumes. Plus I just had a baby so everyone is always home and volume levels are limited to 40ish dBs. 

Any recommendations for getting the most detail at these volumes? Additional gear or recommended integrated amps?

My NAD 7175PE has a loudness button which boosts the treble and bass a little, and that certainly helps things in the Kitchen. 

My living room amp is a Rega Brio-R which doesn’t have any tone controls. 

Any thoughts? Thanks!
leemaze
Get a Decibel meter and measure the sound level in your room with EVERYTHING off. My bet is you'll see numbers in 40ish range. So regardless of the system, 40ish dB listening levels is basically background music at best. As most have suggested, get a headphone and crank it up to your heart's desire.
Lowering ambient noise as much as possible is indeed a first requisite. In a new house you can specify sound proofing glass for the windows, muffled ventilation, a quieter heating system, but in an existing house these are all hard/expensive to do. Even, so there may well be possibilities.
The headphone suggestion is a good one, it cures a lot of woes and can give you some great listening sessions, also keep in mind that the speakers are like an open window to your upstream components and are not going to cure any of their short comings. I myself have my system set up, in near field, such as to render all the dynamics and presence I need at low volumes. Most my listening sessions are late at night into early morning, while grandson is asleep and can honestly say that I don’t miss the higher volume but do crank it up when I can but absolutely don't miss the higher volumes when I can't.
Thanks for the suggestions guys. Ordering a Loki now, I’ll let you know how it goes. I think that’s the ticket.

I use only two sources: Airplay streaming through a DAC and a Rega Planet CD Player. I can EQ the streaming on my computer and the Loki will go in line with the CD player.

Cheers!