All the "balanced" hype is pure BS.
It has it's place with long runs of interconnect >10mts for less noise.
But you are more right than you know, when you say it's BS.
As many sources, preamps and poweramps with balanced inputs or outputs are fake!!
In that they are single ended topology circuits, with just an opamp on the input or output to make them have balanced inputs or outputs.
All along you'll get better sound using the single ended inputs or outputs on these because then you are bypassing those opamp/s.
Cheers George