Wow, I knew there were many experts here, I appreciate that so many people are also kind enough to reply! I was thinking maybe two responses!!
First response to the Herron VTPH-2a, and that concurs with my research. Also, I have read many praises for Mr. Herron. Actually tried to purchase one used, but the guy never responded. That is really stretching past the $2000 limit, although, as stated, it is probably worth the reach at that point. I'm thinking that's true too with the Allnic H1201.
So that is the second aspect of this search, many of the excellent ones I've found, and the other excellent ones I didn't know about, are rarely sold used. As nitewolf said, " typically you don't see them used because no one sells them."
I don't know if I'll be able to follow varyat's good advice, as I tend to complicate everything, and then even with all of that still end up wondering if I did something wrong.
I am wondering just how much dB gain the Dynavector 10X5 needs from the phono preamp. From the specs, it is 2.5mV, but I'm not sure if that is the only spec I need to look at. The specifications for the Decware SE34I.5 state it needs "2.5 volts for full output."
I have also heard the many praises of the LOMC, but at least for now I'll have to attempt just to get this HOMC working.