How To Field Questions About Your Audiophile Lifestyle...


We Audiophiles often have a bit of "The Adams Family" about us to other people..especially to neighbors and those who come into contact with us often.Here are some of the most common questions that come up and some suggestions on how to field them.

Q."About that stereo of yours,; "what kind is it?"
 A. Looking at your watch, "It's a q
uarter to 5."

Q."How much did it cost?"
 A. "I'm not sure.I stole it."

 Q."How come my stereo doesn't' sound like that?"
 A."You need smarter friends with better advice." "I hear they really kick"is 5 words from hell, if you are really serious about your selections.

 Q."Why do you play "Aerosmith" and the "Butthole Surfers"then switch to that "Beethoven"
 crap?"
  A. "Beethoven was a musician too."He went deaf without any rock music at all.

  Q."Why is your furniture differently arranged than everybody else's, all diagonally?"
  A."It has to do with the lighting,"or "Thats the way the previous people living here liked it."

  Q."Why do you always walk backwards when there is a strong wind coming at you ?"
  A."I like to protect my nice face from aging" or "I forgot my ear muffs today."

  Q."Why do you play your CD player with the top off and why does the Xmas tree near it always have greenish blue lights."
  A.It has to do with the absorption of stray laser..Err it's too long a story."

  Q."Why do you have a Xmas tree still up by your CD player?"
  A."It's already September..Might as well just keep it up now."

I hope this helps.

supertweak
hifiman5,

You bring up a good distinction - one that is much more in the public air these days having been raised by studies of people’s happiness .

I’ve briefly pondered it’s applicability to high end audio and can’t say I’ve come to a conclusion yet:

Does our hobby exemplify the desire for "owning things/possessions?"

On one hand, it IS about owning material objects that make us happy, and it does seem pretty materialism based - we lust after "things we want to own" e.g. the latest speaker, amplifier etc.

On the other hand, we use these objects as "experience machines" - to generate different experiences for us each day. The experiences of listening to different music and musicians, the home equivalent of going to a concert.

So it seems hard to pigeon hole which, if either, category - object or experience - our hobby falls in to.

(I think my inclination, probably shared by others, is to spin it more towards the "experience" side of things, which may be true but may also be our wanting to ennoble our efforts. On the other hand, people rushing in to Best Buy to get the latest TV on sale could say the same thing - it brings them experiences of the different things they’ll watch - sports, movies etc. But then, things like Big Screen TVs and the like are typically held up as examples of the "shiny materialistic objects" of materialism. So if one is defending high end audio on the same ground as defending TVs or other material goods, it seems a bit more suspect).
Someone asked me if my system was better than Bose (look at my profile and decide). My answer was "I think so"
@prof   Thanks for your post.  I agree with everything you said!  Our audio "experiences" are very important to our quality of life but those experiences are made possible by purchasing the gear necessary to enable our listening.

When things start to veer to the hardware side is for those who are routinely trading in a piece of gear for another and then another.  Doesn't mean they are acting "wrong", it's just that they are more into the gear perhaps than the "experience" of enjoying the music for music's sake.

@prof @hifiman5 Fully agree with your posts. This world has been, and is still experiencing a technological storm advancing and building on itself. The commercialisation and advertising trickery to have us conform to what is represented on television as a societal norm is changing younger generations to look at what they are supposedly lacking, and trying to achieve over-expectations.

HiFi shows are in our case no different. Look at all the eye candy being presented, which is totally out of reach of younger generations in most cases.

Housing major populations is no different. Japan have single person pods for instance. The family home is becoming further out of reach here in
Australia, unless you move further out. Then you are faced with transport and family/school/shopping facilities that have yet to be built, and so on - but I digress.

The more settled (baby boomer era) adults have been brought up with different expectations and appreciation of the world around us. Indeed some of us predate the electronic calculator, watched black and white images of men on the moon, and PC's (IBM being the first commercial one) were non-existent. Riding a bike to school (or walking) was normal in any weather.

Our audio pursuits, particularly those still using the turntable, are looked upon as staid by the new electronic generation. Our pursuit in finding solace in the music we play is as relaxing and fulfilling as a weekend of golf, but perhaps not as social. Is that why we scour these threads for social interaction? Yes at times perhaps this is true, and for myself and I assume for others, to learn from other's knowledge and experiences. Our's can be a challenging pursuit, perhaps more so than golf? (My older brother happens to be a Golf Professional, and his son also). We exchange opinions which amounts to taking the "piss" out of each other, all in good jest. Which is how it should be.

Whoa! What?! Watched black and white images of men on the moon? You couldn’t afford a color TV? NASA couldn’t afford the bandwidth to broadcast in color? Kubrick wanted the moon landing to look real by filming on the lot outside London in black and white? 👨‍🚀

Color video Apollo 11 at,

https://youtu.be/G6A72ufn3l4