Well, final decision time. I very much appreciate all the advice and comments in this thread! Definitely shows the passion we all have for this great hobby and the diversity of thought and really, hearing each of us has. There are so many options and variabilities to choose from, but in the end, as many of you have stated, it comes down to our individual hearing preferences, goals, and budget.
Today I returned the Sanders amp. What a great company! They paid to ship the amp to me and allowed me 30 days to trial it. When I told them I was going to return it, they sent me a return notice from UPS - they paid the return shipping costs too! As soon as it arrives, they said they will refund my entire purchase cost. Who does that today? Great people!
Tomorrow I will send my Plinius to Upscale Audio and I will keep the Primaluna. Why? I really love the sound, and I like the idea of tweaking the sound with new tubes. I also spoke with a person who works on tube amplifiers who told me he did not believe I would have any problems with the PL and my Summit X speakers because of the size of the output transformers, which made me feel even better about my decision. This amp is a BIG STEP UP from the Plinius.
Is this the last amplifier I will own? No, it is not. At some point I do want to have a separate preamp and amplifier. When I do, I will consider all the options the participants in this thread have provided, and maybe even a tube preamp with SS amplifier. The PL integrated gives me a chance to try out tubes without breaking my budget by buying separates. And if my hearing becomes more critical and I do hear signs of the amp clipping, I can always sell it and start the upgrade process then. This decision has the added benefit of not having to convince my wife I need another $3000 (HaHa - she does not hear or see value in this hobby, prefering to listen to her music from her phone - yes, her phone!).
Given my budget and hearing, I feel this is the wisest choice right now. I have no doubt there are even better amplifiers out there to consider, but budget does have to be a consideration. I think of this as evolution toward audio nirvana, whatever that looks like to each of us. I definitely have more upgrades in my future.
Thank you again for all your help and guidance!
Steve