flapjack,
You are definitely right and shape of one's ears must account for something. That, along with those few things I mentioned, is almost never, if ever, mentioned here (Audiogon). In this particular thread, chatting about vibrations, controlling/affecting those parameters may yield significant change. It may not always be practical, but this is a theoretical discussion anyway.
I suspect that having chronically thickened sinus mucosa affects vibrations, and consequently perception of sound, much more than some fancy wood cable elevators or inflated hoses placed strategically under the equipment. Those effects are, in fact, widely known and accepted. Widely minus one (geoffkait).