What is a lowball offer? How low is low?


Recently I was looking at 2 -3 preamps. One was particularly interesting which was a Conrad Johnson 16LS2. The asking price was $3500. I have always wanted the 16LS2. But it was out of my price range. I couldn't make a serious offer. So I didn't and moved on. A few days later I see that it has sold for $2500! What? That was in my budget. But I would have considered that more an insult than a offer. And because I didn't want to insult the seller, I lost a good preamp to someone who was willing to take the chance. So what is the lesson learned here? Apparently I should insult more sellers . The seller wasn't insulted after all. he sold it for $2500. Or is the lesson that I take this stuff too seriously?Should sellers be insulted when offered 50% of their price?  I had thought that 10-15% below the asking price was a realistic offer. Now I'm not sure. So what do you consider a low ball offer? And please, I understand that a product is worth what someone is willing to pay. So no economic lessons please
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Good responses and helpful to someone like me who really doesn't care to do the proverbial dance (dickering) without looking the seller in the eye. Quite honestly, it took me a long time to become comfortable with the process of "bargaining".I learned the art of it when I rode 450 miles to buy a car. They knew I was serious and so tried to get more than top dollar. It took a few hours but I got it for $300 more than I had set out to pay. that was on a $20K car. So I felt good about it.
Anyway, thanks for the feedback. 
You're not going to be incarcerated, flogged, or executed. Just tell the seller what you can afford and ask them if they would kindly consider your offer. A little respect is the key. IMO
@elizabeth 

i more or less feel that audio has become like many other products... bring out new models every few years and hype them as though they are better... even if they are not... Many new products are better... some are not. 


I’ve offered products for 70% and had to drop to 60%... and I’ve offered products for 40% and had to drop to 30%. 


Where does that leave us?  Ultimately, the market sets the price... if I offer a product at 60% thinking it is a fair offer and buyers don’t agree, then my product won’t sell.     


If im buying a product, frankly, I’m thinking as much or more about what I can resell it for down the road../ hoping to keep my cost of ownership below 20%.... sometimes it happens... sometimes not. 
Used gear should be priced about fifty percent of new. If you offer less than fifty percent that's prolly a lowball.