I want to be moved and have the music touch my soul!

It maybe that your bored with the music you have collected or choose to listen to.  Sometimes I get bored with 'Western music' so I listen to Arabic music (old & new), wow that was like discovering Rock'nRoll all over again. Their drum beats are so fresh, different and so comprehensive.  Their approach to singing and composition of songs are so inventive.  Its very hard for me not to be passionately or at least musically involved in their music and to date its never been boring for me.  Its just a suggestion, try a new genre of music or even other music from different countries and continents, it may work for you.  At the end of the day music is a subjective choice and I just hope there is still something out there which will move you. 

Find out where and what your soul is and everything else will fall in place .

Well I found my answer. A pair of Revel Gem speakers, DIY subs and a minidsp SHD with Dirac room correction. The music puts me in a trance now. Amazing difference. I think the SHD cam make i big difference in any system.