Musicians in your living room vs. you in the recording hall?

@millercoarbon1  Hey, man, YOU asked us to come over and then, after the gig, you did not provide much in the way of refreshments.

Sorry we trashed you place, but if you ask people over, you need to be a better host, dude.

Later...

I would prefer musicians in my room effect in most cases. I must say, that I have not ever experienced either effect to my satisfaction. And as I get older it is becoming harder and harder for me to suspend my disbelief.  I am a very frustrated audiophile.  ALL recordings sound like recordings to me. 

Live venue listening is inferior period.

Ban that person!