I’m still confused as to what you did when you experienced the resonance.
Ayre recommends playing the IBE at “moderate” levels which I interpret as less than typical SPL for music.
When I did my XO rebuild, I searched for cabinet modes with steady tones (ie, not IBE). At higher SPLs, there were many frequencies that caused distressing distortions. I never determined the cause - amp or speaker - but immediately stopped that exploration!
Thank G*d, actual music sounds sublime!