I just had my vintage Pioneer SX-1050 refurbished. I had a severe case of sticker shock when presented with the bill - oops!! Which unfortunately pretty much forces me to use it.
A common mistake. No not the refurbishment. Not the bill. The conclusion. So common there's a name for it: The Fallacy of the Sunken Cost. Or The Sunken Cost Fallacy. Whichever way you prefer. The relevant word in any case being: fallacy. Its just wrong.
So look. You made one stupid mistake. So what? Who doesn't? I sure have! Everyone has! The trick is to first of all realize it was indeed a mistake, look it in the face and until you understand as well as you can what led to that mistake, in order to not repeat it hopefully ever again (but mistakes happen, so good luck with that) and then correct it.
You clearly know this was a mistake. Good. Not sure if you know why, but whatever. My job now is try and help you understand you don't have to spend the rest of your life suffering over that one mistake. Which you seem to want to do.
Why? Ditch the receiver. Water under the bridge. As a newly refurbished bit of good looking classic kit there's plenty of schlubs be happy and proud to have something so cool to look at (the real appeal of this stuff anyway, as you now know it just don't sound that good) and pay handsomely for. So maybe you lose a few bucks. So what?
Clean start.
Or, what you seem to want to do instead: buy a bunch of absolute crap, which you know has to be absolute crap, since by definition it can't be what you want, really good sound, since really good sound is only gonna make more and more clear how you screwed up with the receiver! So instead you want to buy one band-aid after another. First this then than, all trying to hide the fault of the receiver. Which one day you finally realize has got to go, and then what? You're left with all this crap!
The fallacy of the sunken cost. Fallacy, indeed.