Dear @atmasphere please treat all my writings as a friendly argument in a search for the truth, so there is no need to apologize :)
If you have to use loading to achieve proper sound, it is a flag that something could be amiss: Instability in the phono section, a mismatch between arm and cartridge, that sort of thing.I'd respectfully disagree. I'd say much depends on how the cart is designed. Electromagnetic damping due to a low R is actually quite an attractive (at least on paper) way of damping. Look at it from this perspective: linear just by the physics, no deterriortion, easy to implement and easy to control *by the user* with a great accuracy by changing R. Mechanical damping on the other hand, could be more challenging to implement with non-linerities, aging effects, no user control etc.