Many thanks for the responses and @atmasphere,
I'll need to further research to digest the ideas you have expressed. It does sound like I'll have a hard time finding an ideal since manufacturers don't market with these concepts, let less explain them.
So basically I need to:
1) check the output impedance vs frequency graph to be flat
2) relative to whatever load (value) used to measure.
3) make sure it is AES 48 standardized
Sorry the last paragraph:
"To this end, the output of the preamp can't reference ground- instead the complete signal is set up so that the non-inverting output references its opposite and vice versa; ground is ignored and used only for shielding. Traditionally this was done with an output transformer when tubes were king and still is with solid state because of the grounding issue. Regardless there are tube preamps that support the standard. "
Means that old tube amps are more likely to be what I'm looking for,
and solid state has always been more common of what I'm looking for?
I think to sum it up, these specs that you speak of seems like the ideal pre-amp "in general", as oppose to the "best" pre amp for my scenario?
I mean I'm assume everyone wants what I want of course lol
(wider soundstage, more bass, more detail)....?
Now the simplest solution, I suspect is just to grab a Pass Labs pre-amp from the same era...