How far apart do you position your speakers ?

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Now that we've cleared THAT up...Pettyfeveresk: I am concerned that your spouse is named "my dog Hanna"

My listening room has furniture, book cases, paintings, a glass wall, moose head (not really), a high sloping ceiling, and no formulaic solution. So I merely listen...combfilteringstandingwaves be damned! Also..."off axis" is extremely taste and speaker design driven and again, no formula, especially if you're face is over 6 feet away from the tweeter, and rooms generally do NOT have a specific "frequency curve" except what can maybe be measured in one spot, and that has zero to do with music (soundstage specifically) unless you listen with your face stuck to the window or you hang from the ceiling fan and measured those places. I've used a few vastly different speakers in that room...all requiring COMPLETELY different positioning to get to a sweet spot.

Here's my formula, try it if you get curious or bored:

Speakers 1/3 into the room
Chair against the back wall (make sure the wall behind you is not hard/bare)
Speakers spread 83% of the distance from your ear to the plane of the speakers directly in front of you
Toe in to taste, I suppose this will have a lot to do with speaker design

My room is 13' front to back, 12' side to side.
My speakers are a little over 4' into the room and are about 68" apart center of driver to center of driver.

I went to a shop in another city a while ago and the owner suggested the 1/3 into the room and chair against the back wall. It went against what I believed, but I got curious and bored at the same time so I tried it.
I got the 83% thing from this thread and it actually worked pretty darn well.
It may be that my room is small, a cube, or whatever but this is where I have my speakers.

Is it that the distance between the speakers is 83% of the distance from the speaker to ear or plane of the speakers in front of you to ear? There is a difference.

I did the plane of the speaker to the ear, but I believe the 83% mentioned in this thread was from ear to speaker.
The way I did it worked well for me. I have my rack on the side wall, so moving speakers farther apart would have meant closer to the gear.

I find that a listening distance of 1.5 times the spacing between speakers works best.

If you listen at 6 feet then speakers spaced 4 feet, at 9 feet spaced 6 feet apart, and at 12 feet spaced 8 feet.

I find the often recommended equilateral triangle with toe in does not sound as realistic.

I prefer speakers facing forwards and square to the room - no toe in or toe out.

I do not respect speakers that change their sound character with angle.

I will only use speakers with even dispersion across the main frequency range.