@zeal,
No crystal ball, may I borrow yours? You are talking about 3 different speakers that do not even remotely sound like they are in the same hall. What does it matter what others think or have heard? Do you want them to spend your money for you? If that is the case, go with the Triton One R. My reasoning is it is close to the Triton Reference which I love and find perfect for my taste. If you want to save a lot of money, Triton Ones can be had used for $2500.00. I know nothing of Spendors or PMC. I do know you wont get the same quality or quantity of bass out of the Spendors or PMC that you get from the GE speakers.
About that spanking, have your wife or girlfriend give you 50 whacks plus an extra 10 for being so snarky.