Yup, you are turning into an audiophile!
Owning Polks and Blue Jeans wire, they would not let me in the door. I never separate the gear from the music. For instance, a person would have to explain to me how Coltrane playing Giant Steps would sound different, with different wire / gear. Speakers excepted.
And since my objective is to obtain sound that faithfully represents a good RECORDING of a musical event, high end gear would be wasted on me. As one wit at Stereo Review once observed, "Who would want the New York Philharmonic in their living room". Excellent point. I suspect we all just want our systems to sound like flawless recordings, not sound like 'LIVE'.
Cheers