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Is Wife Acceptance Factor (WAF) sexist?

Believe our addictive hobby is primarily male dominated. The technical aspects seem to appeal more to men. Or is that in and of itself sexist. There are now a few knowledgeable and astute women reviewers. I am always intrigued by the comments off the few women who identify themselves by name on the Forum. One in particular is quite long winded. I'm sure this has nothing to do with her sex. Although he/she has a name which could be male or female. I always love it when my wife comes to look at the record sleeve of the vinyl playing and rely on her opinion of the fidelity. Not to mention desire and count on her approval of new purchases. But is she also addicted? I don't think so. Does that have anything to do with being a woman. I don't think so. Does she care about the fine nuances? She says not. I would love to hear from women and anyone on this. WAF? I care a lot what things look like. HAF?







mglik
mglik OP
911 posts
 
I consider myself “woke” although I am not sure what all that entails.
If it suggests being considerate and kind, that is me. I rely on my female partner for her perspective and sensitivity. Not exclusively Female traits, her point of view is different and more “yin” to my “yang”. 
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mglik OP
911 posts
 
HI Michelle,
I think "woke" is religious in origin.
In about every religion is "Do unto others... ".
There is no need to disparage a noble concept.
What goes around comes around indeed!

Here's to the sweet music of love!

Mike
glupson
7,842 posts
 
The world may be a better place if someone shut down the Internet for a year.
kennyc
1,619 posts
 
I don't believe that WAF is sexist because it narrowly defines it to being one person - your wife.   Using WAF means that one is cares about their wife's concerns, definitely not the same as anti-wife or putting her down in some way.   Another way WAF is used is to place a line/limit on ourselves to prevent spousal repercussions - self preservation is a powerful motivator.  
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