Tweaking the new Grado Timbre Sonata 3


I have about 10 hours on my new Grado Sonata 3.

relevant system:

VPI Prime > Sonata 3> ARC PH3se (phono pre) > Herron 1A (preamp) > ARC Classic 60 (amp) > Thiel CS 2.4’s (speakers)

My old cart was a Nagaoka MP 500.  While good, the Grado is better overall. But the highs are a bit more extended than the Nagaoka, which seems to be a bit excessive, but just a bit, almost, but not quite sibilant.  
Alignment was done with my trusty AS Smartractor, though difficult to use on the Grado due to the long wood body overhang on the Grado. 

Raising and lowering VTA has little effect. 
My question, before I get too worried about this prior to complete break in, is will the highs “soften” up once broke in. Is that typical with Grados? Or, is it I gots what I got. 
last_lemming
Everything gets a little more liquid with time. But I would expect that by 10 hours you got what you got. If you can't hear VTA then for sure you're not gonna hear whatever slight changes the next 50 hours brings.  

How are you changing VTA, and by how much at a time? Because you should be able to hear even microscopically tiny changes, I'm talking very small fractions of a millimeter. If you're not hearing that, pay attention to the balance between attack and fundamentals. Too high and there's more attack, a sharper faster sound, too low and its a bit bloated and you're losing a small amount of detail. Dialed in is perfect. 

Then once you get this what you do next depends on by just how much your highs are too, uh, high. Loading it down (lower value cartridge resistor) might be the answer you are looking for. There is no right answer you just try a few values and see. When it sounds right to you, its right. 
I have a kit from DB that is rca plugs with different loading values, I think up to 200 or 800 ohms, but it’s meant for MC carts, not MM. 

Would these even be worth a try?