Are all Audiophiles masocists?


My wife says my main hobby is collecting hobbies. She has a corollary to that realization which is, that I also tend to pick hobbies that I will never be happy with no matter how much I spend or how good I get at them. As an Audiophile she states my system is never good enough. I'm always upgrading. I believe we call that "Chasing the Dragon" if I'm not mistaken. She also says the same about several other of my hobbies such as... Golf (unlikely I'll ever shoot an 18), Cycling (a 4.5 hour century ride isn't fast enough), Drag Racing (Car runs mid 8's at 160mph in the 1/4 mile. Upgrades continue!) and there are others. So you get my drift.Is this just me or does the personality of the audiophile make us all just a bit masochistic?
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Does doing what you enjoy immensely often make you a masochist? Depends, I suspect. 

Obsessing about, changing systems is no more a "problem" in audiophilia than someone obsessing about collecting media. Mediaphilia, imo, can be as aberrant as obsession over the gear. I am certainly not weird, but Mediaphiles can be weird!  ;) 

I used to flip gear in search of the One, the perfect speaker/system. The masochistic aspect of it was self-imposed budget constraints, attempting to reach SOTA with a very modest budget cap. What's the definition of Insanity? (Please, I know the phrase; it's not necessary to respond to this rhetorical question.) 

I finally woke up and realized that I never would be happy that way. I began to cultivate a collection of equipment to allow for variety of experiences. It has been a near perfect solution to RES, or Restless Ear Syndrome (my phrase to describe the condition of upgraditis), which can be carried out at the same cost as plowing money into an ultimately unsatisfying search for the One.  

I get bored without progress, and I love the challenge of advancing a rig continuously. I also thrill to hear a performance become more engrossing, emotionally fulfilling, over the years. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that - as long as there is integrity in my relationship with my wife, maintaining my charitable giving, and I'm not blowing the rest of the budget.  YMMV  
It appears you're an active, busy guy.  Your wife should look at the bright side.  If you laid around on the couch all day drinking beer she'd say "you need to get a hobby!"
millercarbon...This is not an attack. I don't understand how a rider with a slower average speed than another rider, unless the slower rider travels a shorter distance, can win the race. It seems to me, that while it is unlikely that the racers would travel the exact same distance because of the path each takes; passing other riders, position in curves and the like, if it did happen that they traveled the exact same distance the rider with the greater average speed would win the race. I admit that I am not an expert in physics, so I may very well be wrong. I am interested in your response.
Who cares. Right now we are on the Port de Bales, Adam Yates still in yellow.
The term "chase the dragon" is from the drug culture.  Smoking heroin.

Putting a line on a piece of foil while someone holds a lighter underneath and the smoker chases the smoke across the foil with a straw.

From Steely Dan, "Time Out of Mind"

Tonight when I chase the dragon
The water may change to cherry wine
And the silver will turn to gold
Time out of mind