To hear it live would have to be done in an acoustic manner. Any amplification or engineering of the music while playing isn't live, except in the sense that it's being done right in front of you. So your friends can't really argue that you don't know what it sounds like unless you were there, unless that live (doctored) performance is the standard against which things are being measured.
As for tweaks, I experiment before settling on what I feel sounds best. I've even gone back, after some time, to see if I hear anything differently, only to find out it was a waste of time to do so, since I heard it right in the first instance.
Our ears are very refined so when that sound hits my monkey bone, gives me the warm and fuzzies, blows my skirt up, or makes me forget my troubles, that is when I know it sounds right, because it's so convincing as to suspend disbelief and I relax and enjoy for no other reason than that.
As for costs, it's all personal and rather selfish, in my case. I have my priorities and sometimes better music wins out, allowing me to indulge, within my limits.
All the best,
Nonoise
As for tweaks, I experiment before settling on what I feel sounds best. I've even gone back, after some time, to see if I hear anything differently, only to find out it was a waste of time to do so, since I heard it right in the first instance.
Our ears are very refined so when that sound hits my monkey bone, gives me the warm and fuzzies, blows my skirt up, or makes me forget my troubles, that is when I know it sounds right, because it's so convincing as to suspend disbelief and I relax and enjoy for no other reason than that.
As for costs, it's all personal and rather selfish, in my case. I have my priorities and sometimes better music wins out, allowing me to indulge, within my limits.
All the best,
Nonoise