Paying with a cashiers check? Need advice!


So I have a deal set up for a new to me pre here on Audiogon. The issue is the seller only wants to excepts a certified bank check. I have never paid this way before and I am a bit nervous. He says all the right things almost to much honestly. He does on the other hand have fifty some positive reviews and I talked to him on the phone as well. Which is when I got a bit more suspicious after he offered me a deal on a disk player at below half market value. He seems genuinely nice but I’m sure the best scammers do. Is there any way to get extra insurance that everything is legit? And would you guys be ok with it being he has 50 positive reviews over nearly 20 year span?  Looking forward to people thought. And thanks. 
brylandgoodman
I take bitcoins, wire transfers and personal checks only.

What is ironic is back when I was in the big data business my team built the platform on which PayPal built their first anti-fraud system. No more PP Mr. Thiel. 

Do auctioneers take PP?
Pretty easy to set up PayPal. If he won’t make that small effort, forget about him. 
If the deal is too good to be true, it is.
What did the OP do? All his posts where posted last Saturday. Door #1 or door #2?
The worst thing that could happen is if you went through this & got what you paid for as promised.  You would then at some point think you could do it again on AG and/or in life in some other way.

What you're doing here (& this is an excellent analogy) is playing Russian roulette with at least 2 bullets in the revolver.  Even if the odds are slightly on your side (by no means a given in this instance) it's an undeniably stupid chance to take. As humans, our ability to rationalize is exponentially greater than any other life form. If you wish to do so to justify going forward with this & it doesn't work, you'll objectively see - you should've seen it. If it does, you'll rationalize it was somehow the right thing to do & keep pointing this kind of gun to your head in other places & ways in life, not just AG. Your critical thinking abilities will just get flushed down the toilet & in insidious ways. The gun's going to go off & that's a guarantee. A matter of when - not if. You'll look stupid then because that's undeniably how you acted with considerable forethought.

Call him on his escrow proclamation & report him if he refuses. You'll then protect yourself & so many others simultaneously. That's as moral as it is intelligent.