I had a similar experience where I went from:
These:
https://systems.audiogon.com/systems/9046
https://systems.audiogon.com/systems/9186
To this:
https://systems.audiogon.com/systems/9292
The cabinet is from Crate & Barrel, which meets your wife’s desire for C&B furniture. It is very functional; it’s sturdy, very well ventilated and IR remotes are no issue. The size is quite nice as well: 54" long, 24" high and 20" deep.
These:
https://systems.audiogon.com/systems/9046
https://systems.audiogon.com/systems/9186
To this:
https://systems.audiogon.com/systems/9292
The cabinet is from Crate & Barrel, which meets your wife’s desire for C&B furniture. It is very functional; it’s sturdy, very well ventilated and IR remotes are no issue. The size is quite nice as well: 54" long, 24" high and 20" deep.