@moag - yes, it is unfortunate that this is the case. millercarbon pretty much just copies and pastes the same dang paragraph on every new HT thread topic. Others also have the same kind of opinions. Some of these comments do have an element of truth - a dedicated high end 2-channel system can generally indeed have a better result than a multi-channel home theater. However, that's not the same thing as saying that a multi-chanell HT system will never sound good for music. I own and also have heard some pretty damn amazing HT systems for music (but also have heard crap). It all depends on what equipment you buy and attention to things such as power cords / fuses.
I don't think the MX123 or Maestro would be bad choices at all. I think they might have a slightly different sonic signature. The Maestro comes in at 29 lbs, so it's definitely not a light weight device (indicates a good linear power supply and transformer, etc.). the MX123 is 9 lbs heavier, but you also have that heavy glass front as part of the weight. That being said, McIntosh MX123 also has excellent power supplies.
If I remember correctly, the MX123 uses the Marantz digital/DSP processing section, but uses McIntosh power supplies and analog output stages. There's nothing bad about the Marantz digital/DSP section. Generally, that's not the most important part.
I don't know what your budget is. If you are looking at purchasing these two options as "new", another option to look at is to find a good used MX160. The MX160 uses the Lyngdorf digital/DSP section instead and has better results and better configurability. I think the power supplies and analog stages are also better than MX123. HT Processors tend to drop in value really fast, so you should be able to find a used MX160 in the $8-10k area (there's one on audiogon now for $9995). They won't be more than a few years old.