Your top 3 most EMOTIONALLY intense live concerts, and top 3 EMOTIONALLY intense records.

Only 1: Itzak Perlman playing Bach's Partita in D Minor for violin in a 1978 performance, especially and wonderfully the Chaconne:

https://youtu.be/qtyTaE7LvVs

Here's one
The Frames "Fitzcaraldo"

Concerts:  Cream Farewell Baltimore Arena; First Dead free concert I ever attended at American University; first Jethro Tull (also free) at Colorado College in 1970. Never before heard a band play together in such TIGHT arrangements. 
Records:  Rod Stewart and the Small Faces, Maggie May. Picking on Nashville, Kentucky Headhunters; Beatles White Album 

bobandcindy101 -- wow, Cream. Still in my top handful of bands. Clapton before he discovered Delaney & Bonnie and lost every ounce of passion and energy. 

Big Brother and the Holding Company at the Fillmore, one of the last concerts before Janis quit. Outstanding.

Ravi Shankar, in Pittsburgh before anyone knew who he was...simply amazing.

'Rubber Soul' by the Beatles blew me away...so did Joni Mitchell's 'Hejira'