Hm. You need to hear better preamps! The way to limit distortion (and colorations) with tubes is not unlike how you would do it with transistors- go fully differential. This keeps the even ordered harmonics down (part of the 'tube' sound) allowing for far more transparency. If you have such a preamp it can work fine with the very transparent class D amps that are now available.
You made me to reconsider a tube pre option with class D. @ml... did you also try a non-tube pre with Stellar S300?
@atmasphere, this is also a stimulating note for me since i was and remain to be a tube fun. I still enjoy very much my tube integrated. Could you be a bit more specific on "marching the distortions" and what kind of a tube preamp could be of a "right type"?