I totally agree about the earlier comment regarding listening skills. Very important.
Put aside the issue of listening to different pieces in A/B comparisons without making sure the volume levels are accurately matched before listening. Because this will give the totally false impression that one hears something better on one than the other. But, it is only a volume difference that gives that impression.
Now, listening skills. Same as for wine. If you don't know what to taste for, you are going into the comparison missing information. If one doesn't know what a real cymbal sounds like or what a real violin (don't get me started on the differences between violins) sound like versus electronic violin, you wouldn't know if what you are hearing is accurate or not.
I would go to concerts, especially live un-amplified concerts, orchestra performances, etc. and take my children and friends. listen and enjoy. go home and listen to analog and digital recordings. They would comment that the cymbals sound tinny or not close to as real as what they heard earlier. Same is true for musical instruments, etc. Ask them to close their eyes at concerts and tell me where the musicians were on the stage. They had no trouble doing that. Listen to recorded playback music and on some systems, they couldn't tell you. On others with the same recordings, they could.
They were starting to get a grasp on what to listen for and the differences based on the equipment they were listening to. then they realized that their ear buds, inexpensive systems may sound great as background music, but when they sit listen, it didn't sound right.
That is the education of listeners.
Same for wine and other things. I had alcoholics in my family and it caused some negative destructive issues in the house. I didn't drink or like wine at all for quite some time. Weddings, parties, etc. yuck. Why are people smiling and acting like they were enjoying themselves drinking this crap.
It wasn't until much later that a good friend turned me on to Napa/Sonoma and wine tasting that I realized that I just never had a good glass of wine before and then started on the journey of enjoying and learning what is good and what isn't with regards to the various varietals. Some wine, I just don't care for. Others, well...
the issue is also for non-Audiophiles, they aren't really listeners. They are playing music as background music while doing other things. Which is not a bad thing at all. But, they aren't really sitting and listening and would never justify spending the ungodly expensive amounts audiophiles spend on equipment.
I listen to a piece of equipment either in my system A/B comparing or in the dealer's store (hopefully in my system). If I'm happy with it enough to purchase it, I rarely, if ever feel the need to tweak it.
Again, as I mentioned previously, correcting the room to me isn't a tweak. Upgrading equipment isn't a tweak to me also. That is just getting to that next level of "there" for me. I actually don't consider replacing interconnect cables or speaker cables as tweaks also. vibration control? tweak, fuses? enough people have reported significant improvements to the extent that as an Electronics/Electrical Engineer, I can't dismiss it. If it is in the signal path, then any changes can affect the sound. Not convinced about power supply and rail fuses. But, who knows?
anyway, I don't believe that most high end manufacturers deny that certain tweaks work, they are saying that what they designed and installed works great in their view, it isn't cost effective to install $2000 fuses and basically they haven't seen the need to install that fuse, low availability resistors or caps. Or as the case of many manufacturers that provide SE versions later on, they caps or resistors that were used to upgrade from regular to SE version may not have readily available in sufficient quantity and reliable enough in the early versions.
enjoy