Using subwoofers without a dedicated two way crossover is just a cheap and very inappropriate path into subwoofer
What it means is he doesn't understand bass, or subwoofers- or crossovers or EQ. If you have the time and energy you are welcome to click the name and read the posting history, where eventually it will become apparent this is all part of a pattern. Sorry. Please disregard.
The problem is like russ69 said if you cut the lows you will only turn it up louder and be right back where you are now. You cannot cut enough, because then you will be above the frequency suitable for subs. Your statement "i want to try at least to get the best out of them" begs the question. You already are getting the best out of them!
You cannot wring blood out of a turnip. Don't put legs on a snake. How many more ways can we say this? Cue Obi Wan Kenobi: These are not the speakers you are looking for!