Do any of you kids , want your system ???

Sad but true questions for most of us older folkes.  My oldest son has a strategy that i should start selling down now, otherwise when I move on he will just bring in a skip and out it all goes.  Pretty brutal.

I have multiple hifi systems in different rooms as well as a large Vinyl and CD collection, not to mention Guitars and keyboards.  Also a growing valve collection as I tube roll plus acquired spares of my favorite NOS valves for each component.  I am disciplined to maintain accurate records on all my gear, what i payed for them and what i reckon they will sell for, which I occasionally update.
So 2 boys, both in their 30's, oldest has little interest though does like live music, headphones at a quiet level off his phone or computer is all he needs and we have few common music tastes.  The youngest luckily has similar music tastes and we regularly do road trips to music festivals.  I have donated a system to him, he really wanted my Apogee 8's so I built a system around them, so I assume he will want the pick of the better systems.  I don't see an interest in vinyl or CD's, into a full digital world which to be honest i have also embraced over the Covid lock down period.  I haven't reached a point (yet?) to give up and sell my vinyl.

Now getting old is no joy, having put both my parents into nursing homes with one still alive, at 93. So I also contemplate which of my systems can be used if and when i reach that stage though hopefully I can be home nursed and keep my main systems. I purposely designed our house (build 8 years ago) to support home nursing, my wife is disabled.

So my strategy is ;1) whilst i still have my marbles at some future point I will have to rationalise the many systems and make a call on CD's and Vinyl  
2) I really hope to stay in my house as long as possible so I can maintain a couple of hifi systems
3) my youngest can take what he wants when i am gone and him selling the rest by consignment makes a lot of sense.

This reminds my of conversations I have with clients for collecting their social security benefits. They ALL want to start early as they can because to them it is all about the breakeven date. I always tell them that if they die before they reach that breakeven point “they will be the first ones not to know”! Best thing to do like I have done is put together a when I am dead file or folder. List all investment accounts with contact info, life insurance policy numbers with contact info, and list of all other material objects and values when purchased. I have also put all laptop and mobile device passwords in there as I scan all receipts and have them in a file.
I am trying to get my daughters to understand the difference in the sound from my system and their IPhones but it is slow to sink in as convince always wins out for now. 

I hadn't thought about it until - just now reading this thread.  I don't think my kids care about my stereo.  

Now, my high end boutique guitars - my son already has dibs.  

My son has already told me that he wants the gear and the speakers but that he does not want all of the music but we will see what happens when the time comes.

Only child is a daughter and is 5. LOVES music and really weird stuff which is awesome! Can hear a song a few times then figure out parts of it on her cheap electric keyboard. Pretty damn amazing. Stereo is in the basement and she has never been down there …. Ever….! 
Couple years from now when she’s not so pokey I will take her down and we will jam. I think she will be into it.