Likewise I have had people tell me that "I shouldn't do that with 2ch music"... until they have come to my place and listened to my system, that is. For a start they wouldn't know all speakers are playing until I switch it back to the front speakers only. As they say, the stage is still up front with all speakers playing... but the separation of each individual instrument and vocals is much much better.
I often laugh when reading a review of a very high-end set of speakers, in which the reviewer is raving about the soundstageing and imaging of said $$$ speakers. If such a wide soundstage and 3D imaging is so desirable in music playback, then why aren't more people embracing surround sound playback..??? Why so hung up on tradition..???