Like I said, I like more weight just because it make me feel like I am getting what I'm paying for...totally a psychological thing with me. Nevertheless, I have had lighter weight gear crush heavy gear when listened to, so it is not at all a consideration/deciding factor for me. Besides, once it is in place, no one knows the weight.
Funny thing - another AgoNer has pointed out that all my gear is big, heavy, or ugly
or some combination thereof. :-)