So, good luck on that elusive search to have your cake and eat it too!
No luck needed. It is extremely possible to separate and also utilize both in a high quality way, I know, I do it.
When they are broadcast live, I have a subscription to the Berlin Philharmonic via the Digital Concert Hall. When I do so, I watch and listen to the performances in HT mode. Why? It sounds better. I know, I’ve tried both. Their production seems engineered for HT, and is very enjoyable.
But, when playing The Berlin Philharmonic via one of my LP’s, CD’s, or streaming, it sounds better via my 2 channel system….by far.
There is no magic here. Once you understand how to implement both in the same room, the advantages are clear. I have my cake and eat it too.