Audio Friends Don't Let Audio Friends ...


Your fellow audiophile who always had a system you enjoyed

makes a significant change in gear. You find it to be a major

downgrade in SQ in one way or another.

 

You know the person does not have a trial period covering the new purchase. 

 

Question:

Do you tell them exactly how you feel about the change

or simply smile thinking- everyone hears differently so 

you should not provide a true statement of your feelings?

 

How have you treated this situation in the past?

 

 

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One person's bright enough to make me run screaming from the room is another's nice detail so ask what they think of it and are they happy first.

If they're truly is a friend and asks your opinion regarding a specific aspect of the sound I see no problem with providing a truthful answer within the parameters of taste but only if they ask.

Your friend knows how it sounds much better than you do and unless you live together and if that's the case keep your mouth shut and simply find different aspects to enjoy.  

If it's a competition of their stereo vs your's and you want to trash talk and he / she / they are into that go for it but realize that you have opened the reciprocal door  and be man / woman / non binary enough to take it for what it is... Trash Talk.

I kinda miss all the robot references.

You didn't say if they asked for my opinion.

I have experienced this. Although nowadays I wouldn't say any change is "major". Most equipment is good. They asked. I told the truth with the caveat that some people prefer different things. But if they hadn't asked I'd let them enjoy whatever they thought.

Be honest! if he asks your opinion, tell him how you feel. Remember, it’s just a feeling you have. Nothing else!