Honestly, I am an old fart as well. The last fifty years I have had quite a few jaw drop moments.
My first piece of audiophile gear: a 7 year old Nakamichi tapedeck that absolutely blew away the sound of my highly reviewed Onkyo (now I realized mid-hi, but that was not how advertised).
First audiophile amp… Threshold s500… 1979 (in todays dollars $18,800) there was nothing else on the market like it.
‘’First digital cable swap… “this cannot make a difference”… but like someone upgraded the components… ~1987
My first high end turntable (VPI Aries / Van den Hull Frog) 1989
My first high power tube amp ARC Reference 160s (2020)
My first really good speakers Sonus Fabre Amati Traditional. (2020)