@dgluke WTF?
@yoyoyaya I agree. Fortunately I can turn off my musician brain and turn on my music lover brain. But then, I'm not a great musician; I have to work very hard at it. My friends that are what I consider "real musicians" confound and amaze me with their talent and ability. Yes, none can afford much of anything and due to the constant financial tension, most are divorced. Very sad to see such supremely talented folks suffer so much.
But there are exceptions. We have an internationally respected, local classical saxophone player. No commonly used in the genre. I'm used to jazz sax. The tone this guy gets is unworldly, unlike anything I've ever heard. His daughter is equally talented and respected. He was rewarded five stars for both sound quality and performance in an Absolute Sound CD review. He has a SOTA, purpose built listening room with the largest Magnapans and TOTL Bryston monos. A clear exception to most musicians. After hearing active ATC speakers, he would like to sell the Magnapans and Bryston. That was just before the pandemic. I don't know if he ever made the switch, probably because his income plummeted at the time.
I think this simple question will separate musicians from music lovers; what do you do when you have some spare time to relax? The musician will pick up an instrument. The music lover will listen to an album. Although I'm both, I always end up in my favorite listening chair. I'm guessing it's why I'm only a mediocre musician compared to my professional friends. So, that may be one reason you usually see a very low cost stereo in a musicians home. Between gigging, practicing and making ends meet, there is not much time to listen. Also, as an engineer, when I got home from work, the last thing I wanted to do is anything to do with engineering. Perhaps many musicians get home and need a break from music so they watch TV or something completely non-musical.
Great thread and thanks for the many thoughtful responses.