I believe in the past you said you like to be able to listen to music at louder volumes and it not sound too loud.
@bhvf That's not exactly right. What I've often said is that its the mark of a good system that it can play at high volume without sounding loud. IOW you can't tell that its playing loud until you find you have to shout to be heard by someone sitting next to you.
But it should also be engaging at low volume- for that matter at any volume. So you need a good first watt too!
Of course the amp has to have its ducks in a row, so does the preamp; there should be good vibration control for the CDP and turntable, so the the front end of your system is unassailable by the volume in the room.