I listen to music at just about every level as I'm a believer that all music has a proper level which goes beyond anyone's taste in volume. A small amount of that is dictated by the recording itself as opposed to the actual music.
Try blasting Simon & Garfunkel some time, it doesn't work for me. Nor does listening to DSOTM at anything but full blast.
I'm listening to Billie Eilish - Happier Than Ever - Not My Responsibility and the SPL was 63-69 which is kinda loud but correct.
What say you?
Regards,
barts