You are absolutely correct. Move to a DAC that is not Roon Ready and using Nucleus as renderer and player might actually deliver a regression in sound with the upgraded DAC. These are the best players I have heard in descending order in terms of price:
Antipodes Oladra or K50 - these are server, player and clock solutions that are not inexpensive but will deliver elite levels of performance. This is the sort of elite solution that would be at home in your system. $25K or $17.5K respectively
Antipodes K22 - Clock and Player portion of K50 and can be paired with any server. $9K
Weiss DSP 501/502 - this unit has a variety of DSPs including room correction. There is an argument simply adding this in the chain and applying a DSP would resolve your issue with 100% certainty as either the d'esser or vinyl mode would likely add the warmth you are looking for. $7.5K/$8.5K
Bricasti M5 - this is a pure player and is an awesome value. Nothing fancy. No DSP. Just a high quality player. $2400
Chord 2Go/2Yu - This is particularly interesting due to its high level of flexibility and wireless capabilities. That being said, it is not at its best via Wireless. It is at its best wired and is equally good compared to the Bricasti M5 via Coax though harder to setup. $2240