There's good 2 way speakers and there's good 4 way speakers, a 4 way by nature requires a more complex crossover than does a 2 way, but a 4 way crossover does not have to "work harder" than a 2 way crossover, but usually your amplifier has to work a little harder with the more complex 4 way crossover.
Your friend is correct about extension and loudness.
Cramming a 4 way tower into a small bedroom is not a good idea neither is a small two way in a large room
Good listening
Your friend is correct about extension and loudness.
Cramming a 4 way tower into a small bedroom is not a good idea neither is a small two way in a large room
Good listening