rvpiano, I'm aware you listen to lots of classical music. Do you spend much time listening to other types?
I ask because of the experience of a friend who had quite a refined musical ear. He could not find just one cartridge that suited all the various classical and jazz recordings he regularly listened to. I do remember he preferred a Grado for vocals, both jazz and opera. Then he had a different favorite for symphonic and big band and a third for chamber music and small group jazz. I don't remember which those were but it was nearly 20 years ago so probably doesn't matter now.
Depending on your arm and table (you didn't identify those) there are a few ways to do this. If you have an interchangeable headshell that may be the simplest and least expensive. Adding at least one additional tonearm would reduce changing headshells, particularly if you were satisfied with two cartridges. Also is the choice to add a second table/arm, but that is not practical for many people.
BTW, I assume it was the cantilever you bent, not the stylus. They don't bend, they break. ;^)