For those of you who had spent over hundred thousand dollars for your sound system.

There are several ways to play the wife game.  There is the "sneak": I know someone who bought the cheapest Naim linestage, and when his wife was not home, he then snuck in the top-of-the-line model which looks almost identical to their cheapest model.  There is flat out lying:  I know someone who told his wife he paid $250 for Avantgarde Duo speakers on Craigslist (he got caught when he was updating his insurance information and left the page open on his computer).  And then, there is the most expensive approach of all: the bribe--I know someone whose habit cost well more than twice the price of his gear, because he has to buy some jewelry or other expensive items in exchange for indulging his habit.

Do some of you guys know how to marry or what ?

If, I consider the retail value on all my equipment I may come close. But my equipment was purchased used, on sale, or significantly discounted. Plus, I have traded in equipment constantly over the years to get to this point.

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I'm always perturbed about inquiries based on how much one spends. If I calculated what I purchased versus sold, I'm well under the floor. Most of the enjoyment out of this isn't ticket prices or bragging about how much the system costs. I believe most of us enjoy the music. To the degree that we share our pleasure it's the enjoyment of the sound and listening. 

You could ask the same about cars or sports cars. Now that you've spent $100K on a Porsche, do you regret what you spend and do you think you could have gotten the same enjoyment out of a BMW? The answer is no. I've been on forums where people compare numbers and say car x makes the same horsepower and torque as the Porsche GT4. Those who ask why spend the extra on a Porsche haven't experienced it. those who have just nod and get it pretty quickly. 

We spend what we spend because we can. I assume no one is homeless because they are schlepping a $100k system in a grocery cart living under a bridge.

When I started this journey my system budget was $5k. Then I'd hear something that I liked better and I had to spend more to get it. No regrets.  

BTW - there is no justification for what any of us spend on audio systems. It's a luxury either big or small. but it isn't a necessity that we must have. 

Could I have gotten better music listening pleasure out of a cheaper system? The proof is in the spending and the answer is no. Could I have settled for less, absolutely. But what's the fun in that? 

@ghdprentice

My current system consists of:

Pass Labs XA-30.8 amp

JJ 243 tube preamp

Pro-Ject X2 turntable with Hana SL MC cart

Gold Note PS-10 and PSU-10 phono preamp

Naim CD5SI

Bluesound Node 2i with Topping D70S DAC

Chapman T7 loudspeakers (recently rebuilt/upgraded by Stuart Chapman Jones himself - it was a special experience hanging out with him listening to music when I picked up my speakers)

RAMM Audio OCC speaker cable, interconnects and power cables.

Custom audio rack and isolation bases (made by me)