I'm not a fan of subs. There can be a discontinuity in tonality. I have never heard one in a room where I didn't prefer listening to music without it.
Due respect, you’ve never heard decent and properly dialed-in subs. When properly integrated you’re not even aware subs are even on much less hearing any tonal discontinuities (sub’s crossover and/or volume was probably set way too high if that’s the case). When subs are well integrated it’s the exact opposite of your experience — you won’t listen without them. BTW, subs don’t just provide bass. They dramatically improve overall imaging and soundstage and greatly enhance the sense of space and detail in a recording, and when you turn the subs off everything just collapses. And with 40Hz as your lower limit you’re missing out on a ton of the musical experience. Just my experience FYI. BTW, don’t take my word for it — order a pair of SVS SB1000 Pros and see/hear for yourself. They offer a long in-home trial and pay shipping both ways so literally costs you nothing but a little time. My $0.02 FWIW.