After all these great suggestions and perspectives, I wish I could say that I have made my decision. However, what I have learned is that I am not going to spend 5 figures on a rack as there are some truly fine options available for a lot less than some late model used cars.
I have calls planned with both Arnold at Core and Peter at Symposium over the next few days. The truth is that I am impressed by both of these systems and the approach each of these gentlemen take with regard to customer service. I wish I could rationalize buying one from each, but I am thankful to have two terrific options.
I did ask the individual who helped me with my system design and choices and while he favors the Quadraspire, that is a non-starter with my wife who generally stays out of the mix on my audio choices! What my friend did say is that “Stands do make a difference but it is never a really big difference. The better stands are the light weight but rigid designs rather than a very heavy design.”
Based on my reading and this thread, I tend to agree and so we will see how my calls go with the experts. I do want to thank everyone for their help and will post again as I reach my decision.