@dogberry :
Again, I will say I do not mind how other spend their money. It is when they tell us we should do the same that it is right to ask "Why?" and examine the responses carefully.
Nothing wrong with asking âwhyâ. Then itâs up to you whether the response was satisfactory TO YOU or not. Good enough of a rationale to take the next step: try. If not, just move on. I really donât understand your protestations. We are all adults, and can figure out what my work or not for us to spend the money. I totally donât mind reading other peopleâs experiences, just curious by nature, although I probably only take action on a very small percentage of what I read around the web
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