Thanks for the answers! I would not have intuitively thought about this because the caps I’ve used (Audio Note, VCap, Jupiter, etc) all seem to have fantastic high frequency sound, even if their ESR measures this way or that. (I kind of wonder what kind of person uses VCap teflon or Deuland silver and still doesn't hear enough high frequencies detail)
I do have a 350uF industrial filter cap on the preamp plate, and that seems like a target for bypassing to experiment with.
Also, from reading articles from various "tone" guys. they seem to bypass based more on blending the sound of their caps. For example I’ve blended electrolytics on each wave of the rectifier, it seems strange each get a different brand of cap, but it did "split the difference" in sound...one Elna was too noisy, the other Kaisei was too intense.