Getting back in the game

Also made in america. Do I need an Ayre preamp or are other brands okay

Ideally yes. The Kx-5 Twenty 

During the 10 Years of doing other things, there has been developments outside of the mainstream, but very attractive as a option in comparison to the Mainstream.

I strongly suggest a look at Neurochrome Amplifiers, they are produced on your side of the Pond, I have had demonstrations of these design in various Models and Build Guises.

They are a substantial Amp and the higher powered version will in my view not be surpassed for the money.

I heard one slotted into a £200K system, and the resident Soulution Power Amp' was not the better not the worse, they comparison offered something of each and a little difference of each designs sonic signature.

Additionally there are plenty of devices today, that are quite reputable performers and not adorned in oversized casing. The system does not need to dominate the Room anymore, a shelving or small cabinet can easily accommodate a High Quality HiFi System if certain devices are selected today.

The Room can quite easily be a multipurpose space, as the footprint that is to take the most space only need be the Speakers, if Large Boxes are the desirable designs. 

Maybe a used Aesthetix Mimas with the optional DAC card and maybe their phono card. Usually integrated DACs are sonically an afterthought but these optional cards offer great sonics at their price point. Can save you some in cabling also.

The Hifi Rose RS520 integrated has a DAC and network streaming. It uses GaN FET which many have found sonically favorable like tubes but without the slow and frequency limitations. This brand garnishes many very positive reviews.

The MoFi Ultradeck turntable punches above its price point. Coupled with the Master Tracker cartridge (discounted if purchased w turntable) makes this a fantastic sonic deal.

Audio by Van Alstine brand is also offers high price/performance.  
if a separate amp, Odyssey amps are sonic bargains.